Beauty
Beauty, may be defined as pretty or good looking. However, it has come to a conclusion that the definition and philosophy of beauty is subjective. Even so, the sensation of beauty is universal, therefore the object is subjective but the sensation is clearly not. So, is beauty in the eye of the beholder?
To get through life happily I believe we must believe this quote and understand people and love them for who they are. For people do not change just for us, we instead change people. Will someone go for cosmetic surgery just because he or she thinks she is not up to standards? Who has caused her to go for the surgery, having labelled as “fake”, making her waste tonnes of her money that can be used on other helpful causes? It is undoubtly us, the critics, the gossipmongers, that may have said hurtful words or maybe even laughed at her. We ought to change. We cannot just dislike a person because he or she does not look like us, for they may have a heart of gold lying right under their ribcage that obviously we do not have.
First impressions are said to be the most important, but are they? I don’t think so. You must get to know someone for who they are and learn the beauty in them. While people say absence makes the heart grow fonder, prescence makes you understand the heart you are going to miss. Without understanding, wouldn’t it be just infatuation, or maybe just a passing crush on a cute guy or girl? Therefore, we ought to think whether he or she is really the dream guy or girl you want to walk down the aisle with, and of course, spent the rest of your life with.
How do you judge a person’s beauty? By how she looks or by her character and personality. It is important that she looks good probably, for that would be the look that you will be seeing every morning, however, wouldn’t her character and personality score higher points as that would be what you will be living with and that would also affect your own character and personality. A person may look very good, but becareful, for we ought not to judge a book by its cover. It’s best we read its content.
Is beauty in the eye of the beholder? Yes, it absolutely is. A person may appeal to you more than anybody else, for she attracts you with possibly a special charm that you are looking for in a girl. You may see her as perfect and wonderful, but not always others, who may think negatively of her. However so, listen to your heart than your brain, for love is heartfelt and love would not need any thinking if you two are meant to be.